Shloka 40
Sapindīkaraṇa: Timing, Eligibility, Gotra Rules, and Yearlong Śrāddha
with Vṛṣotsarga and Ghaṭa-dāna
पतिपत्न्योः सदैकत्वं हुताशं याधिरोहति / पुत्रेणैव पृथक् श्राद्धं क्षयाख्ये तस्य वासरे
patipatnyoḥ sadaikatvaṃ hutāśaṃ yādhirohati / putreṇaiva pṛthak śrāddhaṃ kṣayākhye tasya vāsare
สามีภรรยาถือว่าเป็นหนึ่งเดียวเสมอ จึงกล่าวว่าภรรยาขึ้นสู่ไฟฌาปนกิจร่วมกับสามี; กระนั้น ในวันที่เรียกว่า ‘กษยะ’ บุตรต้องทำศราทธะแยกถวายแก่นางโดยเฉพาะ।
Lord Vishnu (in discourse to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Ritual Type: Ekoddishta
Beneficiary: Mata
Timing: Kṣaya day (assigned death-anniversary/tithi for the wife)
Concept: Though husband and wife are ritually ‘one’ (sadā ekatva), the wife still requires an independent śrāddha by the son on the Kṣaya day (death-anniversary/assigned tithi) for her pitṛ-status.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma harmonizes relational unity with individual karmic/ritual entitlement; subtle distinction between saṃbandha and adhikāra.
Application: In annual rites, perform a distinct śrāddha for the mother on her prescribed Kṣaya/tithi even if joint funeral narratives exist; maintain separate sankalpa and naming.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Type: ritual site
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 2.26 (rules on śrāddha for spouses; separate piṇḍa and cooking provisions)
FAQs
This verse states that husband and wife are considered a single unit in dharma, which is why their funeral-related rites are discussed together; it frames the wife’s connection to the husband’s last rites while still preserving distinct śrāddha duties.
It assigns the son a clear obligation: even if the couple is treated as ‘one’ in principle, the son must still perform a distinct śrāddha for the departed woman on the specific ‘Kṣaya’ day.
Maintain clarity in family śrāddha observances: honor marital dharma while ensuring each departed relative receives the prescribed, separate remembrance rites on their appropriate tithi/day.