Nīti-saṅgraha: Conduct, Association, Kali-yuga Decline, and the Supremacy of Vidyā
तत्र मुक्तादरस्नेहो विलुप्तं यत्र सौहृदम् / तदेव केवलं श्लघ्यं यस्यात्मा क्रियते स्तुतौ
tatra muktādarasneho viluptaṃ yatra sauhṛdam / tadeva kevalaṃ ślaghyaṃ yasyātmā kriyate stutau
ที่ใดความเคารพและความรักถูกละทิ้ง และที่ใดมิตรภาพสูญสิ้น—สิ่งที่น่ายกย่องแท้มีเพียงอย่างเดียว คือในการสรรเสริญอย่าเอาตนเองเป็นเป้าหมายแห่งคำสรรเสริญ
Lord Viṣṇu (in instruction to Garuḍa/Vinata-putra)
Concept: When respect/affection and friendship vanish, genuine worth lies in actions where the self is not set up for praise—humility and self-effacement.
Vedantic Theme: Ahamkara-tyaga; karma done without self-glorification (nishkama tendency).
Application: Do good quietly; avoid self-promotion; repair relationships by restoring respect and warmth; practice gratitude and credit-sharing.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: karuna
Related Themes: Garuda Purana niti: warnings against pride and hollow social bonds
This verse states that what is truly commendable is conduct free from self-praise—especially where respect and friendship have declined—highlighting humility as a core dharmic virtue.
Indirectly, it points to inner purification: reducing ego and self-glorification strengthens dharmic character, which supports better karmic outcomes and spiritual progress.
Avoid boasting and seeking validation; choose actions that remain worthy even without applause, and protect relationships through respect and genuine goodwill.