Nīti on Friendship (Mitra), Discretion, Restraint, Health-Regimens, Prosperity (Śrī), and Family Dharma
जायमानो हरेद्दारान् वर्धमानो हरेद्धनम् / म्रियमाणो हरेत्प्राणान्नास्ति पुत्रसमो रिपुः
jāyamāno hareddārān vardhamāno hareddhanam / mriyamāṇo haretprāṇānnāsti putrasamo ripuḥ
เมื่อเกิดมาเขาย่อมดึงใจภรรยาไป; เมื่อเติบใหญ่ย่อมพรากทรัพย์ไป; และยามตายย่อมพรากลมหายใจ—ไม่มีศัตรูใดเสมอบุตร.
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Attachment to progeny can become a source of suffering; relationships can drain resources and peace of mind.
Vedantic Theme: Vairāgya toward saṃsāra; recognition of impermanence and the ego’s possessive projections.
Application: Cultivate non-possessive love: provide duties without clinging; plan finances and succession wisely; practice inner detachment and equanimity.
Primary Rasa: bibhatsa
Secondary Rasa: karuna
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.114 (nīti on household pitfalls and vairāgya)
The verse warns that excessive attachment to progeny can lead to loss—of domestic harmony, wealth, and even peace at life’s end—so one should practice discernment and detachment while fulfilling duties.
By stressing that even prāṇa (life-breath) is ultimately taken at death, it points to impermanence and the need to orient one’s life toward dharma and spiritual preparation rather than clinging to worldly ties.
Care for children responsibly, but avoid possessiveness; keep finances and relationships dharmic, and regularly cultivate remembrance of mortality to prioritize virtue, service, and spiritual practice.