Nīti on Friendship (Mitra), Discretion, Restraint, Health-Regimens, Prosperity (Śrī), and Family Dharma
मात्रा स्वस्त्रा दुहित्रा वा न विविक्तासनो वसेत् / बलवानिन्द्रियग्रामो विद्वांसमपि कर्षति
mātrā svastrā duhitrā vā na viviktāsano vaset / balavānindriyagrāmo vidvāṃsamapi karṣati
ไม่พึงนั่งลับตากับมารดา พี่น้องหญิง หรือบุตรี เพราะหมู่แห่งอินทรีย์มีกำลังยิ่งนัก อาจฉุดแม้ผู้รู้ให้คลาดเคลื่อนได้
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Indriya-grāma (the collective senses) is बलवान (powerful); therefore avoid secluded sitting with close female relatives to prevent transgression and scandal—situation-management as moral discipline.
Vedantic Theme: Indriya-nigraha as prerequisite for steadiness of mind; recognition of rajas as a destabilizing force even for the विद्वान्.
Application: Maintain appropriate boundaries and transparency; avoid compromising situations; cultivate self-regulation practices (mindfulness, vows, accountability) rather than relying on self-image of virtue.
Primary Rasa: bhayanaka
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.114.5 (avoidance of faults); Garuda Purana 1.114.7 (self-control and consequences)
This verse states that the senses are inherently powerful and can overpower even the learned, so disciplined conduct and avoiding tempting situations is essential for dharmic living.
It emphasizes that scholarship alone is not a guarantee of restraint—without practical safeguards, sensory impulses can still ‘pull’ the mind away from right conduct.
Maintain clear boundaries, avoid unnecessarily private or compromising situations, and prioritize habits that strengthen self-restraint and mental clarity.