Gopī-Vipralambha: The Search for Kṛṣṇa and the Revelation of Divine Footprints
तया कथितमाकर्ण्य मानप्राप्तिं च माधवात् । अवमानं च दौरात्म्याद् विस्मयं परमं ययु: ॥ ४१ ॥
tayā kathitam ākarṇya māna-prāptiṁ ca mādhavāt avamānaṁ ca daurātmyād vismayaṁ paramaṁ yayuḥ
เมื่อได้ฟังนางเล่าว่า มาธวะได้ประทานเกียรติแก่เธอ แต่ต่อมาเธอกลับได้รับความอัปยศเพราะความประพฤติของตน เหล่าโคปีต่างพิศวงยิ่งนัก
It was natural for Rādhārāṇī to ask Kṛṣṇa to carry Her, for this request was consistent with the loving mood of Their relationship. Now, however, in great humility She describes Her behavior as wicked. Hearing of these affairs, the other gopīs are astonished.
This verse shows that even after receiving Kṛṣṇa’s special favor (māna), pride or crookedness (daurātmya) can lead to a fall into dishonor (avamāna), reminding devotees to remain humble.
They heard that Kṛṣṇa had honored her, yet she was later rejected due to her own proud or improper attitude; this reversal revealed how subtle ego can interrupt intimate bhakti.
When receiving recognition or success, avoid entitlement; keep gratitude and humility, because ego can quickly spoil relationships and spiritual progress.