Govardhana-pūjā: Kṛṣṇa Redirects Indra-yajña to Worship of Govardhana, Cows, and Brāhmaṇas
उदासीनोऽरिवद् वर्ज्य आत्मवत् सुहृदुच्यते ॥ ५ ॥
udāsīno ’ri-vad varjya ātma-vat suhṛd ucyate
ఉదాసీనుడిని శత్రువులా దూరం పెట్టవచ్చు; కానీ మిత్రుణ్ని తన ఆత్మవలె భావించాలి.
Even if Nanda Mahārāja did not see friends, enemies and neutral parties as entirely equal, Lord Kṛṣṇa, being Nanda Mahārāja’s son, was certainly a most trustworthy friend and should therefore not be left out of intimate discussions. In other words, Nanda Mahārāja might have thought that as a householder he could not act on the highest saintly platform, and thus Lord Kṛṣṇa furnished additional reasons why His father should trust Him and reveal the entire purpose of the sacrifice.
This verse defines a true well-wisher (suhṛt) as one who treats others as his own self (ātmavat), with genuine care rather than detached indifference.
In Krishna’s teaching, mere neutrality in matters of duty and care can become harmful; therefore, one who is coldly indifferent is not fit for close reliance and should be kept at a distance.
Choose close company and mentors who actively wish your spiritual and moral good, and be cautious of relationships marked by consistent apathy, neglect, or non-support.