Puṣkara-Śapatha Itihāsa (Agastya–Indra Dispute at the Tīrthas) | पुष्कर-शपथ-आख्यानम्
कुट॒म्बिको धर्मकाम: सदास्वप्रश्चन मानव:
kuṭambiko dharmakāmaḥ sadāsvapraśca mānavaḥ
भीष्म उवाच—कुटुम्बी धर्मकामः सदा स्वप्रश्चनः मानवः। नित्यं संयतचित्तः स्यात् सावधानश्च कर्मसु॥
भीष्म उवाच
Bhīṣma emphasizes that the gṛhastha (householder) life must be anchored in dharma and sustained by continual self-restraint; ethical living is not accidental but a daily discipline.
In Anuśāsana Parva, Bhīṣma is instructing Yudhiṣṭhira on righteous conduct. Here he characterizes the ideal householder as one who consistently chooses dharma and maintains self-control.