Shloka 174
Śuka’s Guṇa-Transcendence and Vyāsa’s Consolation (शुकगति-वर्णनम्)
तदेवमनुसंदृश्य वाच्यावाच्यं परीक्षता | स्त्रीपुंसोी: समवायो<यं त्वया वाच्यो न संसदि
tad evam anusandṛśya vācyāvācyaṁ parīkṣatā | strī-puṁsoḥ samavāyo 'yaṁ tvayā vācyo na saṁsadi ||
Bhishma berkata: “Setelah menimbang demikian dan meneliti dengan cermat apa yang patut dikatakan dan apa yang tidak patut, janganlah tuanku, dalam balairung yang penuh ini, membicarakan penyatuan perempuan dan lelaki. Perkara demikian tidak layak untuk pertimbangan umum; menahan lidah juga suatu bentuk dharma.”
भीष्य उवाच
Educational Q&A
One should discriminate between what is fit to say and what is unfit, especially in a public assembly. Even if a matter is true or relevant, topics that violate decorum—here, discussion of sexual union—should be restrained; ethical speech is guided by propriety, context, and the dignity of the forum.
Bhīṣma is instructing his listener during the Śānti Parva’s didactic discourse on dharma. He cautions that in a crowded royal assembly one must avoid certain intimate subjects, emphasizing careful judgment (parīkṣā) of speech according to place and audience.