कार्ये च मन्त्री सत्स्त्री स्यात्सती (खी) स्यात्करणेषु च / स्त्रेहेषु भार्या माता स्याद्वेश्या च शयने शुभा
kārye ca mantrī satstrī syātsatī (khī) syātkaraṇeṣu ca / streheṣu bhāryā mātā syādveśyā ca śayane śubhā
Dalam urusan kerja, isteri hendaklah seperti penasihat yang bijaksana; dalam melaksanakan tugas, hendaklah menjadi pembantu yang setia dan cekap. Dalam kasih sayang, hendaklah seperti seorang ibu; dan di kamar, hendaklah menjadi kekasih yang membawa keberkatan.
Lord Vishnu (addressing Garuda/Vinatā-putra)
Concept: Idealized spousal roles: wife as adviser in work, capable assistant in action, motherly in affection, and auspicious beloved in bed—integrating artha, dharma, kāma.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma as harmonization of puruṣārthas; sattvic relational conduct reducing rajas/tamas in household life.
Application: Cultivate multi-dimensional partnership: shared decision-making, reliable execution, emotional caregiving, and consensual intimacy; avoid reducing spouse to a single role.
Primary Rasa: shringara
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Type: household (gṛha)
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.64 (stri-lakṣaṇa and gṛhastha ideals cluster)
This verse highlights household ethics by describing complementary qualities that sustain harmony—counsel in duties, devotion in action, nurturing affection, and intimate concord.
Indirectly: by emphasizing righteous household conduct (ācāra), it supports dharma and merit (puṇya), which the Garuda Purana links to favorable outcomes after death.
Treat marriage as a partnership: share counsel in decisions, cooperate in responsibilities, cultivate nurturing care, and maintain respectful intimacy—without reducing either partner to a single role.