Nīti-saṅgraha: Conduct, Association, Kali-yuga Decline, and the Supremacy of Vidyā
ये पदस्थस्य मित्त्राणि ते तस्य रिपुतां गताः / भानोः पद्मे जले प्रीतिः स्थलोद्धरणशोषणः
ye padasthasya mittrāṇi te tasya riputāṃ gatāḥ / bhānoḥ padme jale prītiḥ sthaloddharaṇaśoṣaṇaḥ
Mereka yang menjadi sahabat ketika seseorang berada di kedudukan, kemudian berubah menjadi musuh. Seperti Surya bersuka pada teratai di air, namun apabila teratai diangkat ke tanah kering, dialah yang mengeringkannya.
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Worldly friendships often depend on position; when one loses ‘pada’ (status), the same associates may become adversaries.
Vedantic Theme: Anitya (impermanence) of saṃsāric relations; discernment between true well-wishers and transactional ties; refuge in the unchanging (Hari).
Application: Do not base identity on rank; cultivate character-based friendships; prepare for reversals with humility and savings of merit; deepen devotion and inner stability.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: bhayanaka
Type: waterbody/shore
Related Themes: Garuda Purana (general): teachings on anitya of wealth/relations and the need for dharma as true companion
This verse warns that friendships based on status are unstable; it encourages discernment and detachment so one relies on dharma rather than social power.
By highlighting the unreliability of worldly ties, it points the seeker toward inner merit (dharma/karma) as the true support beyond changing circumstances.
Choose integrity over influence, test friendships by virtue (not advantage), and cultivate steady conduct that does not depend on position or praise.