अभिगम्य च तत् तुष्ट्या दत्तमाहुरभिष्ठतम् । याचितेन तु यद् दत्तं तदाहुर्मध्यमं बुधा:
abhigamya ca tat tuṣṭyā dattam āhur abhiṣṭatam | yācitena tu yad dattaṃ tad āhur madhyamaṃ budhāḥ ||
पराशर म्हणाले—स्वतः जाऊन प्रसन्न मनाने जे दान दिले जाते, ते सर्वश्रेष्ठ मानले जाते; पण मागितल्यावर जे दिले जाते, ते ज्ञानीजन मध्यम दान म्हणतात.
पराशर उवाच
The moral value of charity depends greatly on intention and initiative: giving proactively and joyfully is praised as the highest, while giving only after solicitation is considered merely average.
In a didactic passage of the Śānti Parva, the sage Parāśara instructs on standards of dāna (gift-giving), ranking gifts by the giver’s attitude and whether the giver takes initiative or waits to be asked.