Purusha-Strī-Lakṣaṇa (Samudrika-śāstra): Marks of Kingship, Wealth, Longevity, and Conduct
प्रचुराश्रुदीनं रूक्षं च रुदितं च सुखावहम् / अकम्पं हसितं श्रेष्ठं मीलिताक्षमघावहम्
pracurāśrudīnaṃ rūkṣaṃ ca ruditaṃ ca sukhāvaham / akampaṃ hasitaṃ śreṣṭhaṃ mīlitākṣamaghāvaham
അധികാശ്രുവുള്ള ദീനകരച്ചിലും രൂക്ഷമായ വിലാപവും സുഖാവഹമെന്ന് പറയപ്പെടുന്നു; എന്നാൽ ശ്രേഷ്ഠം കുലുക്കമില്ലാത്ത സ്ഥിരഹാസ്യം, കൂടാതെ കണ്ണുകൾ അടയ്ക്കൽ പാപഹരം.
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Afterlife Stage: Pretayoni
Beneficiary: Pitr
Timing: Immediately after death (pre-cremation handling; part of antyeṣṭi observances)
Concept: Different modes of grief have effects; the highest is steadiness and auspicious composure; closing the deceased’s eyes is a purificatory act (aghāva-hara).
Vedantic Theme: Sattvic steadiness (sthiti) amid impermanence; ritual action as support for mind’s purification and orderly transition.
Application: During last rites, maintain calm presence; perform respectful bodily rites (including closing eyes) with mantra and steadiness; avoid chaotic displays that disturb others.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Related Themes: Garuda Purana: antyeṣṭi and post-death handling of the body; auspicious acts for the preta’s welfare; Garuda Purana: sin-removing efficacy of proper rites and composure
This verse contrasts distressing, harsh lamentation with composed conduct, indicating that steadiness and proper ritual actions are spiritually preferable and beneficial.
By emphasizing correct conduct at death—especially calmness and ritual acts like closing the eyes—it frames the immediate post-death moment as dharmically significant for the departed’s onward journey.
Maintain composure during bereavement, avoid uncontrolled or harsh lamentation, and follow respectful last rites carefully—treating small ritual duties as meaningful acts of dharma.