Shloka 18
अदारा-नीति
Crisis Composure) and ‘Jaya’ Śravaṇa (Morale-Instruction
बुद्धिमान् पुरुष इस जगत्में अत्यन्त अल्पमात्रामें अप्रियकी इच्छा करता है। लोकमें जिसका प्रिय अल्प होता है, उसका अप्रिय भी निश्चय ही अल्प होगा ।।
priyābhāvāc ca puruṣo naiva prāpnoti śobhanam | dhruvaṃ cābhāvam abhyeti gatvā gaḍeva sāgaram ||
人が愛すべきもの、心にかなうものを欠けば、人生において真に吉祥で美しいものを得ることはない。むしろ彼は必ず喪失と空虚へと向かう――流れが進みゆき、ついには大海に入って姿を消すがごとく。
पुत्र उवाच
Educational Q&A
A life stripped of wholesome ‘priya’—rightly directed affections, aims, and sources of joy—fails to reach ‘śobhana’ (true good/auspiciousness) and instead tends toward ‘abhāva’ (privation). The verse uses a natural simile to stress inevitability: absence of the dear leads to a predictable diminishment of well-being.
In Udyoga Parva’s counsel-filled setting, the speaker (identified as ‘the son’) offers reflective instruction on human motivation and outcomes. The verse functions as a moral observation within advisory dialogue: it frames how managing what one seeks as ‘dear’ affects one’s experience of gain, loss, and the quality of life.