Nītisāra: Virtuous Association, Household Dharma, and Kāla (Time) as the Supreme Regulator
वर्जयेत्क्षुद्रसंवादमदुष्टस्य तु दर्शनम् / विरोधं सह मित्रेण संप्रीतिं शत्रुसेविना
varjayetkṣudrasaṃvādamaduṣṭasya tu darśanam / virodhaṃ saha mitreṇa saṃprītiṃ śatrusevinā
卑しい小言を避け、悪しき者の姿さえも避けよ。友と争うなかれ、また己が敵に仕える者と親しみを結ぶなかれ。
Lord Vishnu (in instruction to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Concept: Saṅga-doṣa (harm from unwholesome association) and preservation of friendship through restraint in speech and conflict.
Vedantic Theme: Sattva-saṃrakṣaṇa through saṅga-śuddhi; guarding the mind from vāsanā-contagion.
Application: Avoid gossip and toxic circles; set boundaries with unethical people; resolve disagreements with friends privately; do not befriend those aligned with your harm.
Primary Rasa: shanta
Secondary Rasa: bhayanaka
Related Themes: Garuda Purana 1.108 (nīti/dharma counsel context)
This verse frames dharmic living as guarding one’s speech and company—avoiding petty talk, avoiding the wicked, preserving friendship, and refusing closeness with those aligned to one’s enemies.
By emphasizing disciplined speech and association, it points to the karmic roots of one’s future experience—ethical restraint and loyal friendship support a mind suited for dharma and spiritual progress.
Limit gossip and degrading conversation, reduce exposure to harmful influences, resolve conflicts with friends quickly, and keep healthy boundaries from people who undermine your well-being or loyalties.