Shloka 96
तोयपूर्व प्रदायान्नमतिथि भ्यो विशाम्पते । पश्चाद् भुञज्जीत मेधावी न चाप्यन्यमना नर:
toyapūrvaṃ pradāyānnam atithibhyo viśāmpate | paścād bhuñjīta medhāvī na cāpy anyamanā naraḥ ||
Bhīṣma berkata: “Wahai penguasa rakyat, setelah terlebih dahulu mempersembahkan air dan kemudian makanan kepada para tamu, barulah orang bijak makan; dan ketika makan pun hendaknya ia tidak melakukannya dengan pikiran yang terpecah.”
भीष्म उवाच
Educational Q&A
Hospitality is a primary duty: one should first honor guests by offering water and food, and only then eat oneself; moreover, eating should be done with attentive, undistracted mind as part of disciplined conduct (dharma).
In Bhīṣma’s instruction on righteous conduct (dharma), he addresses the king and lays down a rule of household ethics: prioritize the needs of guests through proper offerings, then partake of one’s meal with mental composure.