Sapindīkaraṇa: Timing, Eligibility, Gotra Rules, and Yearlong Śrāddha
with Vṛṣotsarga and Ghaṭa-dāna
एवं न कुरुते नारी धर्मोढा पतिसंगमम् / जन्मजन्मनि दुः खार्तादुः शीलाप्रियवादिनी
evaṃ na kurute nārī dharmoḍhā patisaṃgamam / janmajanmani duḥ khārtāduḥ śīlāpriyavādinī
Perempuan yang berselubung ‘dharma’ namun tidak bersatu dengan suaminya, akan menderita duka dari kelahiran ke kelahiran—berbudi laku buruk, tetapi manis tutur katanya.
Lord Vishnu (in discourse to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Afterlife Stage: Pretayoni
Concept: Neglect of one’s relational dharma produces recurring sorrow and degraded character across births.
Vedantic Theme: Karmic saṃskāras persist; outward speech can mask inner adharma, yet karma bears fruit.
Application: Align inner intention and outward conduct; address relational duties conscientiously and seek ethical counsel when conflicts arise.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: bhayanaka
Type: moral/psychological landscape of saṃsāra
Related Themes: Garuda Purana, Pretakalpa karmic retribution patterns: repeated births shaped by specific adharma
This verse frames marital companionship as a dharmic responsibility; neglecting it is presented as generating adverse karmic impressions that echo across rebirths.
By stating “janmajanmani,” it links a specific ethical lapse to repeated suffering and character distortion over many lifetimes, emphasizing continuity of karma beyond one life.
Treat close relationships as ethical commitments: practice honesty, mutual responsibility, and integrity—avoiding merely outward sweetness that hides inner neglect or harm.