त्रिवर्गविचारः
Tri-varga Deliberation: Dharma, Artha, Kāma
अकार्पण्यमसंरम्भ: संतोष: प्रियवादिता । अविहिंसानसूया चाप्येषां समुदयो दम:
bhīṣma uvāca | akāṛpaṇyam asaṃrambhaḥ santoṣaḥ priyavāditā | avihiṃsā anasūyā cāpy eṣāṃ samudayo damaḥ ||
भीष्म ने कहा— कंजूसी का अभाव, उतावलेपन का न होना, संतोष, प्रिय वचन बोलने की आदत; तथा अहिंसा और दूसरों की निन्दा न करना— इन सबका एक साथ उदय होना ही ‘दम’ (आत्मसंयम) है।
भीष्म उवाच
Bhishma defines dama (self-restraint) not as a single act but as the combined rise of key virtues—generosity, calmness, contentment, kind speech, non-violence, and non-fault-finding—showing that inner discipline is measured by stable ethical dispositions.
In the Shanti Parva’s instruction on dharma, Bhishma continues his didactic discourse, offering Yudhishthira a concise definition of dama by listing the traits that together constitute genuine self-restraint.