Shloka 46
Chapter 2: Sudarśana Upākhyāna — Atithi-Dharma and the Conquest of Mṛtyu
Gṛhastha-Vrata
निष्क्रान्ते मयि कल्याणि तथा संनिहिते5नघे । नातिथिस्ते5वमन्तव्य: प्रमाणं यद्यहं तव
niṣkrānte mayi kalyāṇi tathā saṃnihite ’naghe | nātithis te ’vamantavyaḥ pramāṇaṃ yady ahaṃ tava ||
कल्याणि, निष्पापे! यदि तुम मुझे अपना आदर्श मानती हो, तो मैं घर से बाहर चला जाऊँ या पास ही उपस्थित रहूँ—किसी भी दशा में तुम्हें अतिथि का अपमान नहीं करना चाहिए।
भीष्म उवाच
Educational Q&A
The verse teaches atithi-dharma: a guest must never be dishonored. Hospitality and respectful reception are binding ethical duties, independent of personal convenience or whether an elder/authority figure is present to supervise.
Bhīṣma addresses a woman respectfully (“kalyāṇi,” “anaghe”) and lays down a rule of conduct: whether he is away or nearby, she should not slight a guest. He frames himself as a pramāṇa (moral exemplar) and instructs her to follow this standard.