Shloka 174
Śuka’s Guṇa-Transcendence and Vyāsa’s Consolation (शुकगति-वर्णनम्)
तदेवमनुसंदृश्य वाच्यावाच्यं परीक्षता | स्त्रीपुंसोी: समवायो<यं त्वया वाच्यो न संसदि
tad evam anusandṛśya vācyāvācyaṁ parīkṣatā | strī-puṁsoḥ samavāyo 'yaṁ tvayā vācyo na saṁsadi ||
Bhīṣma dit : «Après avoir ainsi réfléchi et soigneusement discerné ce qu’il convient de dire et ce qu’il ne convient pas de dire, tu ne dois pas, dans cette assemblée pleine, parler de l’union de la femme et de l’homme. Un tel sujet n’est pas fait pour la délibération publique ; la retenue de la parole est elle-même une forme de dharma.»
भीष्य उवाच
Educational Q&A
One should discriminate between what is fit to say and what is unfit, especially in a public assembly. Even if a matter is true or relevant, topics that violate decorum—here, discussion of sexual union—should be restrained; ethical speech is guided by propriety, context, and the dignity of the forum.
Bhīṣma is instructing his listener during the Śānti Parva’s didactic discourse on dharma. He cautions that in a crowded royal assembly one must avoid certain intimate subjects, emphasizing careful judgment (parīkṣā) of speech according to place and audience.