Purusha-Strī-Lakṣaṇa (Samudrika-śāstra): Marks of Kingship, Wealth, Longevity, and Conduct
संवृतैश्च ललाटैश्च कृपणा उन्नतैर्नृपाः / अनश्रु स्निग्धरुदितमदीनं शुभदं नृणाम्
saṃvṛtaiśca lalāṭaiśca kṛpaṇā unnatairnṛpāḥ / anaśru snigdharuditamadīnaṃ śubhadaṃ nṛṇām
Les sourcils froncés et le front contracté, ces rois avares, enflés d’orgueil, ne versent pas de larmes. Mais pour les hommes, un pleur doux, sans gémissements, sans abattement, est de bon augure.
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda/Vainateya, per the common dialogue frame of the Garuda Purana)
Concept: Proper emotional expression (snigdha, an-aśru? i.e., not excessive; gentle, non-dejected weeping) is auspicious; pride and miserliness harden the heart.
Vedantic Theme: Sattvic moderation; purification of mind (citta-śuddhi) through balanced emotion rather than tamasic suppression or rajasic excess.
Application: In grief, allow gentle tears without collapse; avoid performative or pride-driven emotional suppression; cultivate compassion.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Related Themes: Garuda Purana funeral/antyeṣṭi-related guidance on conduct and auspicious signs; Garuda Purana ethics: condemnation of kṛpaṇatā (miserliness) and mada (pride)
This verse teaches that soft, controlled weeping—without despair—is considered auspicious, aligning grief with dharma rather than ego or emotional collapse.
While not describing the preta-path directly, it frames proper human conduct at times of loss: grief should remain sattvic and non-despondent, supporting dharmic rites and mental steadiness.
Allow natural emotion, but avoid prideful hardness or hopeless wailing; keep compassion and composure so duties, prayers, and remembrance can be done clearly and respectfully.