Aśoka-śāstra: Nārada’s Instruction on the Cessation of Śoka
Grief
परचक्षुषि चात्मानं ये न पश्यन्ति पार्थिव
paracakṣuṣi cātmānaṃ ye na paśyanti pārthiva
Dijo Yājñavalkya: «Oh rey, quienes no perciben el Sí mismo (Ātman) en aquello que es “visto con los ojos de otro”—es decir, quienes buscan su identidad sólo en miradas ajenas y apariencias—no se conocen de verdad.»
याज्ञवल्क्य उवाच
True self-knowledge is inward: one must recognize the Ātman directly, not define oneself by external appearances or by how others see and judge.
In Śānti Parva’s instructional setting, the sage Yājñavalkya addresses a king and delivers a reflective teaching on self-perception—warning against mistaking external viewpoints for the reality of the Self.