नास्नातां तु स्त्रियं गच्छेन् नातुरां न रजस्वलाम् नानिष्टां न प्रकुपितां नाप्रशस्तां न गर्भिणीम्
nāsnātāṃ tu striyaṃ gacchen nāturāṃ na rajasvalām nāniṣṭāṃ na prakupitāṃ nāpraśastāṃ na garbhiṇīm
One should not approach a woman who has not bathed; nor one who is ill, nor one who is in her monthly course; nor one who is unwilling, nor one who is angered; nor one deemed improper, nor one who is pregnant.
Sage Parāśara (in instruction to Maitreya)
Speaker: Parasara
Topic: Householder restraint: conditions under which one should not seek intercourse
Teaching: Ethical
Quality: authoritative
Concept: Sexual conduct is bounded by śauca (cleanliness), health, consent, and appropriateness; violating these limits is adharma.
Vedantic Theme: Dharma
Application: Prioritize consent, wellbeing, and mutual readiness; avoid intimacy during illness or when either partner is unwilling or unwell.
Vishishtadvaita: Ethical restraint honors the divine indwelling presence in embodied beings by refusing to treat persons as mere instruments of desire.
Bhakti Type: Shanta
The verse frames intimate approach as governed by dharma—physical cleanliness, health, and propriety—so personal conduct supports social and ritual order aligned with Vishnu’s sustaining power.
Parāśara lists specific prohibitions as practical ācāra for the householder, emphasizing self-control, appropriateness, and avoiding harm or impropriety in domestic life.
Though Vishnu is not named in the verse, the teaching reflects Vaishnava dharma: living in harmony with the cosmic order upheld by Vishnu, where ethical discipline becomes a form of reverence to the Supreme Sustainer.