Harihara Revelation and the Kurukshetra Tirtha Cycle: Sthanu in Vishnu and the Sanctification of Saptasarasvata
एतस्मात् कारणात् पुत्र न स्वयं दातुमर्हसि स्वमात्मानं गच्छ शीघ्रं पितरौ समुपाह्वय
etasmāt kāraṇāt putra na svayaṃ dātumarhasi svamātmānaṃ gaccha śīghraṃ pitarau samupāhvaya
For this reason, my son, you are not fit to give yourself away on your own. Go quickly and summon your father and mother.
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The verse forbids unilateral ‘self-giving’—disposing of one’s own person/agency without proper authorization or procedure—implying that parental involvement is required in the situation being discussed.
The dual ‘pitarau’ explicitly includes mother and father, indicating that the decision/procedure concerns the family unit and not a single guardian alone.
After defining ‘self-given’ persons and related categories, the text turns to normative guidance: even if such a category exists, one should not enter it independently; proper consultation/authority (here, parents) is required.