Adhyaya 32: Saṃjaya’s Return, Audience with Dhṛtarāṣṭra, and Ethical Admonition
यो नोद्धतं कुरुते जातु वेषं न पौरुषेणापि विकत्थते<न्यान् । न मूर्च्छित: कटुकान्याह किंचित् प्रियं सदा त॑ कुरुते जनो हि
yo noddhataṁ kurute jātu veṣaṁ na pauruṣeṇāpi vikatthate ’nyān | na mūrcchitaḥ kaṭukāny āha kiṁcit priyaṁ sadā taṁ kurute jano hi ||
Vidura says: A person who never assumes an arrogant, overbearing manner; who does not boast of his own prowess before others; and who, even when angered, does not utter harsh words—such a person is always made dear by people.
विदुर उवाच
Humility and restraint make a person beloved: do not adopt an arrogant demeanor, do not boast of one’s prowess, and do not speak harshly even when provoked by anger.
In Udyoga Parva, Vidura delivers moral counsel (nīti) in the tense pre-war context, describing the qualities of a socially admirable person whose self-control and gentle speech win lasting goodwill.