Udyoga Parva Adhyāya 132 — Vidura’s Counsel on Udyama, Yaśas, and Kṣātra-Dharma
एतावानेव पुरुषो यदमर्षी यदक्षमी
etāvān eva puruṣo yad amarṣī yad akṣamī
Vāyu said: “A person is only as much as this—so far as he is resentful, so far as he is intolerant.” In dharma, one’s true stature is measured not by power or rank, but by the strength to restrain anger and endure provocation without losing self-mastery.
वायुदेव उवाच
A person’s moral worth is revealed by their capacity for kṣamā (forbearance). Resentment and intolerance shrink one’s true stature; patience and self-restraint elevate it.
Vāyu speaks a concise ethical maxim, evaluating human character through the lens of emotional discipline—especially the ability to endure offense without becoming resentful or intolerant.