अनिष्टसम्प्रयोगाच्च विप्रयोगात् प्रियस्य च
aniṣṭasamprayogācca viprayogāt priyasya ca
Vidura pointed to a fundamental source of human sorrow: the pain that arises from being forced into association with what is unwanted, and from separation from what is dear.
विदुर उवाच
Sorrow commonly arises from two conditions: contact with what one does not want and separation from what one loves. Recognizing these causes supports a more disciplined, dharmic response to grief rather than being overwhelmed by it.
In Strī Parva’s lamentation-filled setting after the war, Vidura speaks as a counselor, articulating the psychological roots of grief to help the hearers understand and steady themselves amid bereavement and distress.