Shloka 69
Śuka’s Guṇa-Transcendence and Vyāsa’s Consolation (शुकगति-वर्णनम्)
इच्छतोरत्र यो लाभ: स्त्रीपुंसोरमृतोपम: । अलाभ शक्षापि रक्तस्य सो5पि दोषो विषोपम:
icchator atra yo lābhaḥ strī-puṁsor amṛtopamaḥ | alābhaś cāpi raktasya so 'pi doṣo viṣopamaḥ ||
Janaka says: When a woman and a man mutually desire one another, the gain of their union and the happiness of that meeting is sweet like nectar. But if a person who is deeply attached fails to obtain the beloved, that very lack becomes a fault—terrible like poison.
जनक उवाच
Educational Q&A
Mutual desire can make union feel nectar-like, but attachment (rāga) makes non-attainment poisonous; therefore one should govern desire and avoid clinging that turns absence into suffering and ethical downfall.
King Janaka is speaking in a reflective, didactic context in Śānti Parva, using the contrast of nectar and poison to explain how desire and attachment shape human experience of relationships—pleasure when fulfilled, harm when frustrated.