Shloka 174
Śuka’s Guṇa-Transcendence and Vyāsa’s Consolation (शुकगति-वर्णनम्)
तदेवमनुसंदृश्य वाच्यावाच्यं परीक्षता | स्त्रीपुंसोी: समवायो<यं त्वया वाच्यो न संसदि
tad evam anusandṛśya vācyāvācyaṁ parīkṣatā | strī-puṁsoḥ samavāyo 'yaṁ tvayā vācyo na saṁsadi ||
Bhīṣma said: “Having reflected in this way, and having carefully examined what ought to be spoken and what ought not to be spoken, you should not, in this full assembly, speak of this union of woman and man. Such a topic is not fit for public deliberation; restraint in speech is itself a form of dharma.”
भीष्य उवाच
Educational Q&A
One should discriminate between what is fit to say and what is unfit, especially in a public assembly. Even if a matter is true or relevant, topics that violate decorum—here, discussion of sexual union—should be restrained; ethical speech is guided by propriety, context, and the dignity of the forum.
Bhīṣma is instructing his listener during the Śānti Parva’s didactic discourse on dharma. He cautions that in a crowded royal assembly one must avoid certain intimate subjects, emphasizing careful judgment (parīkṣā) of speech according to place and audience.