Dama-pradhāna-dharma (Self-restraint as the Root of Dharma) — Śānti-parva 154
बालं॑ मृतं गृहीत्वाथ श्मशानाभिमुखा: स्थिता: । अड्नेनैव च संक्रम्य रुरुदुर्भशदु:खिता:,उस मृत बालकको गोदमें लेकर वे श्मशानकी ओर चले। वहाँ पहुँचकर खड़े हो गये और अत्यन्त दुखी होकर रोने लगे
bālaṃ mṛtaṃ gṛhītvātha śmaśānābhimukhāḥ sthitāḥ | aṅgenaiva ca saṅkramya rurudur bhṛśaduḥkhitāḥ ||
Bhīṣma said: Taking the dead child in their arms, they set out toward the cremation ground. Reaching it, they stood there, and, overwhelmed by intense sorrow, they wept aloud.
भीष्म उवाच
The verse highlights the tension between dharma (the necessary duties connected with death and cremation) and natural human emotion: even when one proceeds to perform the proper rites, grief remains real and powerful, inviting compassion rather than judgment.
People carry a deceased child toward the cremation ground; upon arriving, they stop and cry intensely, depicting a scene of mourning immediately before or at the threshold of funeral rites.