Droṇa–Drupada Saṃvāda and Droṇa’s Reception at the Kuru Court (द्रोण-द्रुपद-संवादः; कुरुनगरप्रवेशः)
(अधर्म: सुमहानेष स्त्रीणां भरतसत्तम । यत् प्रसादयते भर्ता प्रसाद्य: क्षत्रियर्षभ ।।
vaiśampāyana uvāca | adharmaḥ sumahān eṣa strīṇāṃ bharatasattama | yat prasādayate bhartā prasādyaḥ kṣatriyarṣabha || śṛṇu ced mahābāho mama prītikaraṃ vacaḥ || pitṛveśmany ahaṃ bālā niyuktātithipūjane | ugraṃ paryacaraṃ tatra brāhmaṇaṃ saṃśitavratam ||
Vaiśampāyana said: “O best of the Bharatas, bull among kṣatriyas! For women this is considered a very great breach of propriety: that the husband should have to keep entreating in order to win his wife’s favor. Rather, it is the woman’s duty to keep her husband pleased. O mighty-armed one, listen to my words, which will bring you satisfaction. When I was a young girl in my father’s house, I was entrusted with honoring guests. There I diligently served a stern brāhmaṇa, one of firm vows.”
वैशम्पायन उवाच
The passage frames a normative ethical claim about household dharma: it is improper (adharma) if a husband must repeatedly plead for a wife’s goodwill; instead, the wife is expected to maintain harmony by keeping the husband pleased. It also elevates atithi-dharma (hospitality) and strict observance of vows as markers of virtue.
The speaker addresses a heroic kṣatriya with counsel on propriety and then begins a personal recollection: as a girl in her father’s home, she was assigned the duty of honoring guests and there served a stern, vow-observant brāhmaṇa—setting up a backstory that will explain subsequent events.