Dāyavibhāga (Inheritance Apportionment) and Household Precedence — Dialogue of Yudhiṣṭhira and Bhīṣma
समीक्ष्य च बहून् दोषान् संवासाद् विद्धि पाणयो: । यथा निष्ठाकरं शुल्क न जात्वासीत् तथा शूणु
samīkṣya ca bahūn doṣān saṃvāsād viddhi pāṇayoḥ | yathā niṣṭhākaraṃ śulkaṃ na jātva āsīt tathā śṛṇu ||
ভীষ্মে ক’লে—বিবাহক কেৱল সহবাস আৰু মূল্য-প্ৰদানৰ দ্বাৰা স্থিৰ বুলি ধৰা বহু দোষৰ কাৰণ; সেয়া ভালদৰে বিচাৰ কৰি বুজা। কেৱল শুল্ক দিলেই বিবাহৰ অন্তিম নিশ্চয়তা নহয়। পূৰ্বকালতো এই প্ৰথা কেতিয়াও স্থিৰ নিয়ম নাছিল—শুনা, মই ব্যাখ্যা কৰোঁ।
भीष्य उवाच
Bhīṣma warns that treating marriage as a transaction—where payment is assumed to finalize the union—creates serious moral and social defects. A legitimate marriage is grounded in dharma and proper rites/consent, not merely in money or cohabitation.
In Anuśāsana Parva, Bhīṣma is instructing on dharma. Here he addresses the issue of ‘buying and selling’ a maiden (kanyā-kraya-vikraya), urging careful reflection on its faults and stating that a paid ‘fee’ has never been a valid basis for conclusively establishing marriage.