Yamamārga, Antyeṣṭi-vidhi, and Daśāhika Piṇḍa-dāna
Road to Yama and Ten-Day Offerings
रोदितव्यं ततो गाढमेवं तस्य सुखं भवेत् / दाहस्यानन्तरं तत्र कृत्वा सञ्चयनक्रियाम्
roditavyaṃ tato gāḍhamevaṃ tasya sukhaṃ bhavet / dāhasyānantaraṃ tatra kṛtvā sañcayanakriyām
তাৰ পাছত প্ৰেতৰ মঙ্গলৰ বাবে গভীৰভাৱে কান্দিব লাগে; এইদৰে তাৰ শান্তি-সুখ হয়। দাহ-সংস্কাৰৰ পিছত তাতেই অস্থি-ভস্ম সঞ্চয়ন-কৰ্ম সম্পন্ন কৰিব লাগে।
Lord Vishnu (in discourse to Garuda/Vinata-putra)
Beneficiary: Pitr
Timing: Immediately after cremation (dāhānantaram), during sañcayana (collection of bones/ashes).
Concept: Grief is to be ritually expressed and then channeled into correct funerary procedure; sañcayana supports the departed’s welfare and the living’s dharmic closure.
Vedantic Theme: Anityatā of the body; dharma as purifier of mind (citta-śuddhi) amid saṃsāra’s inevitability.
Application: Allow dignified mourning, then promptly perform sañcayana after cremation according to family custom and local śāstra.
Primary Rasa: karuna
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Type: ritual site
Related Themes: Garuda Purana Pretakalpa: antyeṣṭi-krama, piṇḍa/tilodaka and post-cremation duties (adjacent verses in 2.15)
This verse explicitly instructs that after cremation one should perform sañcayana; it is treated as a necessary post-cremation rite that supports the departed’s onward transition and ritual completeness.
It states that intense, sincere weeping is considered to bring “sukha” (ease/comfort) to the departed, indicating that proper, heartfelt mourning is part of the prescribed post-death observances within the Preta context.
Follow a structured post-cremation routine: allow genuine grieving without suppression, and ensure the sañcayana/ashes-collection step is performed respectfully and in a timely manner as part of completing funeral duties.