Kṛṣṇa Visits Indraprastha; Kuntī’s Remembrance; Kālindī and Further Marriages
श्रीभगवानुवाच नरेन्द्र याच्ञा कविभिर्विगर्हिता राजन्यबन्धोर्निजधर्मवर्तिन: । तथापि याचे तव सौहृदेच्छया कन्यां त्वदीयां न हि शुल्कदा वयम् ॥ ४० ॥
śrī-bhagavān uvāca narendra yācñā kavibhir vigarhitā rājanya-bandhor nija-dharma-vartinaḥ tathāpi yāce tava sauhṛdecchayā kanyāṁ tvadīyāṁ na hi śulka-dā vayam
শ্ৰীভগৱানে ক’লে—হে নৰেন্দ্ৰ, নিজ ধৰ্মত স্থিত ৰাজন্যৰ বাবে যাচনা কৰা কবি-পণ্ডিতসকলে নিন্দা কৰে। তথাপি তোমাৰ সৌহৃদ কামনাৰে মই তোমাৰ কন্যাক প্ৰাৰ্থনা কৰোঁ; আমি কোনো শুল্ক বা উপহাৰ নিদিওঁ।
This verse states that learned sages condemn begging, especially for one of the royal order who should live by his own dharma; Kṛṣṇa notes this standard even while making a respectful request.
Kṛṣṇa explains He is doing so out of a desire for friendship and goodwill (sauhṛda), showing diplomatic humility while honoring dharma-based social expectations.
Even when asking for something legitimate, one should respect ethical norms, speak humbly, and prioritize relationships and goodwill over transactional motives.