Aśoka-śāstra: Nārada’s Instruction on the Cessation of Śoka
Grief
परचक्षुषि चात्मानं ये न पश्यन्ति पार्थिव
paracakṣuṣi cātmānaṃ ye na paśyanti pārthiva
قال ياجنافالكيا: «أيها الملك، إن الذين لا يُبصرون الذات (آتمن) في ما هو “مرئيٌّ بعينِ غيرهم”—أي الذين لا يطلبون هويتهم إلا في المناظير الخارجية والمظاهر—لا يعرفون أنفسهم حقًّا.»
याज्ञवल्क्य उवाच
True self-knowledge is inward: one must recognize the Ātman directly, not define oneself by external appearances or by how others see and judge.
In Śānti Parva’s instructional setting, the sage Yājñavalkya addresses a king and delivers a reflective teaching on self-perception—warning against mistaking external viewpoints for the reality of the Self.