Nīti on Friendship (Mitra), Discretion, Restraint, Health-Regimens, Prosperity (Śrī), and Family Dharma
न विश्वसेदविश्वस्ते मित्रस्यापि न विश्वसेत् / कदाचित्कुपितं मित्रं सर्वं गुह्यं प्रकाशयेत्
na viśvasedaviśvaste mitrasyāpi na viśvaset / kadācitkupitaṃ mitraṃ sarvaṃ guhyaṃ prakāśayet
لا تثق بمن لا يُوثَق به؛ وحتى الصديق لا تُعطه ثقةً كاملة. فربما في وقتٍ ما يكشف الصديق الغاضب كلَّ سرّ.
Lord Vishnu (speaking to Garuda)
Concept: Trust must be proportionate to reliability; even friends can become adversarial under anger and expose secrets.
Vedantic Theme: Mind’s volatility (rajas) can overturn relationships; viveka and dama protect one’s inner life.
Application: Practice calibrated trust: share sensitive matters selectively; build safeguards; cultivate emotional regulation to avoid becoming the ‘angered friend’ oneself.
Primary Rasa: bhayanaka
Secondary Rasa: shanta
Related Themes: Garuda Purana: niti/dharma counsel on speech control (vāg-niyama), secrecy, and association (saṅga) (general thematic link).
This verse teaches that revealing confidential matters can become a weapon in moments of anger; therefore, discretion is a key part of dharmic conduct.
Indirectly, it supports dharma by promoting self-control and wise relationships—qualities that reduce harmful actions that create negative karma affecting the soul’s post-death journey.
Share sensitive information only on a need-to-know basis, avoid over-disclosure even with close friends, and prioritize calm communication to prevent anger-driven breaches of trust.